The Technoslaughter Philosophy
I am Technoslaughter. And I am me. I use the callname to keep my privacy, but I tell my real name to my students and ladies and we go by real names for the most part. All the women I date know the truth about me and what I do. I continuously work on my best self and help others to do the same. I am a healer, a teacher, and a man. The game has given me wonderful things and I want to give back through teaching. However I’ve seen a bad trend out there. MISCALIBRATION. As Mr. Miyagi and Jackie Chan said in their respective Karate Kid movies, “There are no bad students. Only bad teacher.” I’m an advanced pua’s second opinion and a beginner’s fastest option.
I’ve taught many students, and they usually come to me from other styles and philosophies of pickup that have focused on one genre or one guru. Mystery. Neil Strauss. Ross Jeffries. David DeAngelo. David Shade. Direct. Indirect. Natural. Gambits. NLP. I’ve learned them all and synthesized them all into my own personal style. If you were like me, no single style fit me. Technoslaughter style fit me. So I had to pick and choose my material. But I really didn’t learn it until I had wingmen that were versed in the different styles to show me how they did it. I, like many of you aspiring mPUA’s, started with Mystery and Style. I had good success but I’m no rockstar and watched pua after pua become a bad miscalibrated version of Mystery. Dressing ridiculously, being loud and obnoxious and clowning. Mystery does it because it is congruent with who he is now and uses it well. For me? Some things worked but the rest wasn’t so much congruent with who I was.
Turning students into Mystery mini-me’s was not the original intent of Mystery’s method, but it was the unfortunate consequence when lots of guys go out there with no guidance or with poor guidance at the true intent of the method. Style even made fun of it in his book where all of a sudden he saw mini-Styles all around at the end of his book. I too have been copied to the degree where one student started friending all my lady friends on facebook and joining all the groups I joined, even though one of them was for fans of a good friend’s dog.
I was lucky enough to start with Mike Long and Venusian Art’s work, “Mind of Mystery.” It cost me 2000 dollars at the time but it showed me what Mystery really meant by what he wrote in his method and some of his newer discoveries. The key lesson I learned? Gambits themselves work when the body language, voice, and look are congruent with a guy using it. More importantly you don’t need a gambit when you have the other three aspects congruent with your confidence level. With my wingman Baron teaching me under his wing, I learned the Mystery method/Venusian arts inside and out. But something still didn’t feel right in me.
I then discovered Ross Jeffries’s work. His “Nail Your Inner Game” and “Unstoppable Confidence” recordings which he gave away for free at the time were my GOLD. I realized my congruence with my self was WAY off when I learned his concepts. I became Mystery and Style and every other Mystery-style guru out there as a cover of my true self. It was this costume I put on to game, rather than using it as an enhancement to my true self.
When I did Ross Jeffries’s stuff, All of a sudden I was ready to go out as ME. The funny backlash against Speed Seduction is that people think the patterns are rote and incongruent and manipulative. The funny thing is Ross’s ultimate goal is to get you feeling good about yourself, with acceptance confidence to allow you to walk with confidence in ANY endeavor, and without a different persona or costume in front of you. I felt empowered and ready to go out every night without any expectations nor any need to get anything from anyone. I finally felt what the Venusian Arts’ “Revelations” tried to get me to feel: Ghost and flame. But Ross’s NLP methods allowed me to feel congruent with what I was doing and conveying. It was me that was attractive, not my facade nor my gambits.
Next I met people who had learned from other people such as Tyler Durden, Mehow, Hypnotica, Steve P. When I was good enough at game to get consistent F closes, David Shade became much more important to garner my reputation at ladies’ conversations at coffeehouses as a great lay. No — change that to Astounding lay. No — Change that to Phenomenal one-of-a-kind lay.
Then I met Cliff Y. at a reunion event me and my wingman Dionysus held in NYC. He was a hypnotherapist learning game together with us. I venture to say Cliff learned how to use his hypnosis in game through the reunion, and me and my wingmen learned basic hypnosis from Cliff. And then I had another tool for myself in field as well as with my students to amp up their game. Now all bootcamps include hypnotherapy.
Now I am an mPUA who uses NLP, EFT, Hypnotherapy, Mystery Method, and other unknown but excellent PUA techniques invented and used by my wingmen in their sarging. I am a hybrid of many different styles and experiences, but have done the hard work in field to get it part of me. Add to that my work in healthcare, and life coaching and healing work are also part of my abilities, and you have a synthesized instructor. At this moment I am my best self, and the best self is constantly improving and learning new things. And that’s the learning philosophy I impart to my students.
My students are brought in. I get rid of their approach anxiety in a 1 hour session using all the techniques I’ve learned. It no longer takes 1000 sets. That’s the old paradigm. We get rid of it so they can fly and learn the real important lessons after that.
I impart ethics in pick up. Love the women you choose. Avoid, and learn ways to eliminate, the negative people out of your life including women and lovers. Leave them better than you found them if you have to leave them at all. Many a PUA has had karma kick them in the ass from using the game for the wrong reasons. I come in to right the ship. I’m the cleaner, cleaning up the BS that keeps you from true fulfillment from the game.
Numbers are not important. I do not value one pua over another just because they have more notches on their belt, because they show a video of them with 100 women, or because they have a facebook page full of victims of their techniques rather than true partners. My most successful students find their woman during or immediately after our bootcamp and move on to marriage or long term relationships when they find her value is worthy. That’s their choice. I have had mutually beneficial MLTR’s so I am not trying to force any specific lifestyle.
EVERY pick up philosophy and style out there has value. However I see no value in those programs or websites or gurus who teach other people’s lessons as their own to make a buck. I refuse to rehash other people’s stuff as my own just to make a buck. There’s no need to reinvent the wheel and to put “Technoslaughter” stamped on the sidewall. I will refer you to those products where I believe in the value of the product as original and valuable/worth your money. Right now I can tell you that the top products I have used myself to get me to this level of game is Mind of Mystery from Venusian Arts and Mike Long, all of Ross Jeffries’s products, Charming Rogue/ Nick Quick and Epik’s “Same Night Seduction” products, Stylelife’s silver bullet magazine and dvd monthly program, David Shade’s Masterful Lover products, Neil Strauss’s “The Game” and “Rules of the game”, and direct training from Venusian Arts, Kosmo, Joe D, and Ross Jeffries. But most importantly, I learned most aspects of the game from my wingmen and students across the world through our reunions, Facebook, emails, and Project Hollywood Online yahoo Group Through Area 51 lifestyle. I learn from my students just as much as I teach them. I have the advantage of pulling things from them every time we sarge.
If you want a reunion-type experience, the conferences that bring many styles together are the closest that reproduce this method of learning. Vince Kelvin and Johnny Wolf’s Pua World Summit in LA in September, Speer’s Global PUA summit in NYC and the 21 convention have been the best replicators of the process. However I’ll let you know on this site when the next bootcamps and reunions between me and my wings will be so that you can be part of our world entourage. The fastest way to get rockstar game is to befriend other excellent social artists who already have their world entourages. Most of the best North Carolina PUAs in the triangle/Raleigh-Durham area get their instruction from me.
Just so you know my style, I am a socratic educator. I never give a straight answer. I want you to come up with the answers yourself so that I no longer have to teach you because you have learned how to learn the game and life direction correctly: on your own with good critical filters. It’s the best way to becoming a well-rounded, calibrated, congruent social artist… with your own style and knowledge.