That’s Gunwitch. 31 years old. The Gunwitch method. Followed by many in the community. Part of the book “The Game.” Whoo boy.

I’ve always been one to teach, “Beware the guru you choose… because the model you follow may lead you down the same paths.”

Yeah. THis gives pickup a bad name… only because he is a “guru” with this website and podcast:

You hear it all the time. Guys who never had women before, already misogynistic, becoming misogynistic pua’s. Externally validated men, who damage any woman in their path.

There is a fine line from pua to rapist. Pua to douchebag. Pua to abuser.
Many guys in this game have been really hurt or damaged, and are teaching other guys.
They talk about instant lays like they are triumphs. Sometimes an instant lay is rape.

It really doesn’t have to be this way.
My first lecture to any student who learns from me: Do good things for people. Anything in game that does not have this as a foundational tenet will land you in bad karma land. At first do no harm. These days we have a bunch of young men teaching game with no ethic to it whatsoever. As if the women are objects.

Look around at the community. I train men to be their best selves. But I instantly call out men whose selves aren’t ready or best. I recently removed someone from one of my private discussion groups for saying he “destroyed two naturals.” He was trying to show off in his post. But I saw no reason for the negative karma to destroy anyone. Sure if the guys were mean to you and you are getting your payback by telling their women the truth about them that’s one thing. But destroying two guys for no reason at all is stupidity. Is your best self misogynistic? Then you need therapy. If you have any ounce of hate for women in your bones, no matter how badly a woman has hurt you (I have the worst story I know), you should be working on THAT FIRST and NOT game.

Kosmo and I were training in NYC at Mansion one evening. A group of 6 men from RSD surrounded Kosmo telling him they were going to amog the shit out of him and his students and get in his way the whole evening, and were quite belligerent about it. Kosmo attempted to befriend them. “Guys. There’s plenty of women here. We should be HELPING each other succeed rather than trying to destroy each other. You have 28,851 days on this earth. 8250 prime days for finding a woman. And you wasted ONE OF THOSE DAYS Amogging me?” Those were men out to destroy as well. They walked away, but at the end of his talk one of the RSD trainees asked Kosmo for his card and became his student right then and there. Your students will see your low self esteem eventually and leave you because of it if you teach when you are not your best self.

Is your best self a douchebag? Dressing up and gooning it up, or imitating douchebags? Why did you pay thousands of dollars to learn jersey shore game? They’re teaching it for free tonight on tv.

Is your best self someone who tries to damage others? Negate them? amog them? When did you get so involved in other people’s lives to damage them to stop focusing on yours?

Is your best self an abuser? Do you have so low a self esteem that you fear losing women still? You fear it so much you would beat them up or emotionally threaten them to keep them?

Is your best self a businessman that uses the audition couch as a pickup pad? Modelling services, agents?

Is your best self being married to a beautiful wife, only to go out picking up women still because “It never turns off?” Or to demo to others, only to devastate the woman you were interacting with when you had no intention of doing anything with the real attraction you built up in her? (You forgot she was human, didn’t you).

Is your best self… a PICK UP ARTIST??? The most zen aspect of pick up is that once you get good… it’s time to get out. It’s an enhancement. Not a life. Anyone who tells you otherwise has a karmic end. I see it all the time. Lonely guys with many kids he doesn’t know or no kids, still in the club or in the old paradigm in which they found their past women. No enrichment from the women. Just used the women as objects to get his rocks off on. I may be a master pickup artist, but I am using the skill to find women to get out. I teach guys the skills only because I like seeing guys succeed when they deserve it. I drop lots of guys out of my training because they are selfish pricks that will never create a win-win-win situation with a woman. Some of the younger gurus are traveling all over, getting women, only to see their facebook wall full of posts from their mom and their sister as the only women in their lives. Because the women are never permanent. IS that the best self we are striving for?

Some gurus never see themselves in the mirror. They are so full of their followers they are never called out for their bad thoughts. They get false senses of authority and can’t keep it together as far as keeping their identity in check. Ross Jeffries himself challenges his staff to challenge him when he is out of line. (I saw him tell someone that on the cellphone during conversation so I know first hand and he thanked the staffer for calling him out.) But if you are in the valley of the blind, the guy with one eye is king, despite the fact he can’t tell he is wearing affliction t shirts from 2 years ago.

So Gunwitch. After all these years of game. His current best self is an attempted murderer. Eww. Do good things for others. It’s the first lesson of game. Love women. I just can’t understand the lack of direction instructors give. With great knowledge comes great responsibility. You must teach an ethic to game or else you end up teaching a bunch of guys to be douchebags or misogynists. Plain and simple.

Gunwitch. Gun. Witch. The name is NLP magic. He shot a woman in the face with a gun. Talk about self-fulfillment. Listen to his last podcast if you dare where he talks about how advanced he is at marksmanship. Where he has no emotion anymore and can stay calm when pulling a gun in the face at a person. This is his best self? I am saddened nobody ever called him out on his problem. “No fear anymore or shakiness.” “I used to fucking want to get in gunfights.” “I used to be a nervous child with a gun.” Cold blooded. Best self? He taught game and had a product for sale that is still up for grabs. Beware the guru you choose. If you feel negative energy, walk away. Use your naturally given social senses.