My main observation about poorly calibrated PUA’s is the “Dancing Monkey” phenomenon. All these guys attracting hot girls but not really wanting to expose to these women who they really are. Many PUAs take on the dress and persona of their gurus. I’ve had many people imitate me to a degree and I really don’t like when that is the ultimate goal of their game. This video below explains how I think the game should be approached as a learning process. Many guys need this talk because it’s what distinguishes becoming your best “Self” versus your best imitation of a pua guru.

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