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Case study Video Report: Budding Master Pickup Artists

The following is a 39-minute video case report done for area51 lifestyle. Mike Long interviews me for the case-study video report on how I number closed the “Most popular Character” from all the cycles of the tv show “America’s Next Top Model” after using social sarging to get VIP at a Concert. There she was with one of the guys from Survivor. I opened. She showed me erotic videos on her cell phone. Number closed. They are married now and they were dating at the time (I didn’t know it) but she was definitely attracted. Come to think of it so was he LOL.

It also describes where I came from and where I was at just a few short months into the game. At this point I was 6-7 months into the game. He also coaches me through grounding sequences. Who do you stand for? Who are you? The grounding sequence is used in comfort where you promote yourself for a while, and tell your story, your core, and the foundation of who you are. Funny thing is I don’t do my grounding sequence anymore. Women discover my foundation over time but feel it through my confidence. Once you truly know where you are coming from, a woman will know you are grounded. I help my students through that process as well.

Now during the coaching session, I ask a question about what to do next to get to the Kiss closes and beyond because at that point in my early game I’m attracting but not getting beyond that many times. At the time the interview occurred I was good at opening and attracting but did not get many k closes. After a bootcamp with Kosmo 2 months later I found out what I was doing wrong to not get as many K closes.

I wasn’t making my statement of intent.

I never told the girls that I liked them! Now it’s the most important part of the sarge. And it’s one of the most powerful lessons I give students who get stuck at the same place.

After all that negging and junk people learn to “knock them 10’s down from their pedestal” (Yeah, abuse) its nice to know that if you do it with a statement of intent, you are actually not abusing, but teasing and testing to see if she is good for you. That’s why you smile when you tease, you don’t tease to death or neg to death only to tell the girl nothing about your intent for putting her through all that! The SOI solidifies that you are attracted after she has certainly demonstrated that she is attracted. Before knowing that I was leaving lots of girls hanging after they told me they were attracted too.

Lots of good information here. It’s funny to listen to it again and see where I was so long ago and where I’ve been.

The video is at the link below.
http://www.area51lifestyle.com/AmericasNextTopModelStory.php

FR from the Past: Timothythefox

On the Venusian Arts Forums there is a post about a bootcamp where I was an approach coach with Kosmo, the winner of VH1’s “The Pickup Artist” Season 1 who is now a Venusian Arts instructor and star of the film “Sidewayz, the Driveby Chronicles.” This guy got to train for several years straight, daily, with Matador and Mystery and in turn also got to hang out with Neil Strauss and the other greats in the industry.

The bootcamp was in NYC and we had 3 budding social artists with us, Rhythm, Xborn, and Timothythefox. Fox was nice enough to do a field report/testimonial on the VA website. Now when Fox got the K close in the high end nightclub in NYC, Kosmo taught me a picture gambit. When you see your wingman at a point where he can kiss close, you offer to take a picture, take it, then say, “You can do better than that!” “Better!” “Better!” egging them on to get closer and closer and next thing you know your wing can take advantage of closeness and comfort and kiss close during the picture. Best to do when you see the 3 ioi’s and if you see he can get the close but is missing the body language, or if he is looking for the next thing to do.

This was me training almost 3 years ago. Each student kiss closed. Great memories.

Click below for the thread
http://www.venusianarts.com/forum/showthread.php?t=21611

Student’s Field report 7/13/2010

Here is a Field Report today from one of my newer students.

The coolest thing about this guy is he only did 1 weekend bootcamp with me, he’s been in game a few months and his wingmen are seeing a REAL difference as am I. (A few of his wingmen have not taken a bootcamp from me yet and now are second guessing why not after seeing this student rocket up in his successes). But the amazing thing to see here is his frame of reference. Read it and I’ll explain after.

(Edited to keep anonymity.)

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I drove out on Saturday to see Cool Kid Collective play and meet up with Technoslaughter and my wingman who is one of his other students. Technoslaughter also had a brand new student coming out with him to eliminate approach anxiety for the first time.  After spotting my wingman and his dad and brother we approached the venue. I was about 80% sure that it was the right venue but stopped to ask the hottest set of girls I saw if it was indeed the right place. I did that just to get out of my head and warmed up to talking to strangers, which is what I recommend everyone do when they go out.

After entering I chatted with one of the members of CKC and walked with my wingman and his family to the bar. While waiting for drinks, there was a tan cutie at the bar also waiting for her drinks and lightly dancing to the music. I was field testing a new opener that night – I brushed her on her shoulder and said from behind, “Excuse me, I’m sorry but dancing isn’t allowed here.” She turned around with a smile and said something along the lines of “oh I’m sorry, I won’t do it then!”

We exchanged a few more words, can’t remember what exactly, and she held out her hand to introduce herself. Big IOI. I flirted with her for a little bit before she got her drinks (about three or four, obviously buying for a group). I locked in against the bar and she stood there chatting with me and asking me rapport-seeking questions. When a girl does that while holding drinks that she has to deliver to her friends it’s a massive IOI. With that time constraint in mind I stacked forward and qualified her as much as possible. She said she had to get back to her friends but said she looked forward to seeing me later that night. She had a real fun vibe and on top of that, she flies F-15’s for the air force!! Holy shit that’s hardcore. A girl who can whoop more ass than me is definitely girlfriend material.

Chatted with Technoslaughter and met his newest student.  Hey New student: you’ve got a real wholesome vibe and you’ll do great in field.

While I was hanging out with Technoslaughter and his newest student and meeting some of the women they were chatting with (he obviously got rid of his approach anxiety in one night!), a woman tapped me from behind and asked me to take her and her friends’ picture. Now one of the first things I learned from Mystery is to not jump into a girl’s hoop when she asks you to take their picture. It’s better to come across as an asshole than to fall into their frame. That being said I can’t get over how much of a jerk I feel like telling a girl I’m not going to take her picture. So now I go with whatever I’m feeling at the time. I’ve dismissed girls in the past if I didn’t like their approach. Sometimes I’ll take their picture, but I’ll tease them relentlessly for it and accuse them of wanting to take my picture. Naughty party girls. Since these women were being friendly and adding to the vibe I reciprocated by taking it. The birthday girl even offered to do my hair in return – she’s a hair stylist. She massaged some gel into my hair and we all took a bunch of pictures together, some of her friends yelling out “oh my god you and him would be the hottest couple!”

With an opener already in mind I ambled outside and approached the first two set of girls I saw. I’d rank them about 8’s. (if you do that sorta thing)
Me: “Hey guys, real quick. On a scale of one to ten…. what do you think of my hair?”
Blonde girl: “honestly… a 6”
Me: “Ouch, oh well, thanks for being honest. This hair stylist in there just offered to do my hair. She massaged some stuff into it. I haven’t even seen it yet.”
I purposely weaved this into an opener cause of the pre-selection it entailed. I teased the girls a little bit about their own hair and moved some of the strands on their heads around telling them I liked it better that way. Lots of laughter. I transitioned and stacked forward and my wingman came in and winged me at the perfect time. I agree with what Technoslaughter said – This student is a great wing and I knew once he was in set I could smooth it out and focus on my target.

My wing and I bounced the two girls inside to get a drink. My target was nice and intelligent. She was the responsible type, but that just isn’t what I’m looking for. She didn’t have the fun sense of humor that I want in a girl. So while we were at the bar, my F-15 fighter pilot from before walked by and I grabbed her and talked with her again. My wing occupied the two set from before and this definitely worked some jealousy on my girl from the set since she had to observe me flirt with this other girl. Even after my wing disengaged from them they were giving me proximity for the rest of the evening. (In retrospect that may have been bad wingmanship since I left my wingman occupying the two set on his own).

I’ll start wrapping this FR up – I isolated and sat down with my F-15 fighter pilot. She told me, “You know, I don’t like meeting guys at bars, but you’re really nice.”  She kept on telling me she liked me but that she doesn’t do one night stands – she plays wing woman for her Air Force buddies so she knows what guys are after when they go out. I left her for a moment and left the bar forgetting to get her number – so I parked my car and ran back in to number close. She only comes up to Raleigh once a month though :-/ She was the right girl for me personality-wise but not logistically.

On a side note, she told me how she always has to open sets of girls for her guy friends in the Air Force. Goes to show you what kind of balls we have doing cold approach – they might fly fighter jets, but they can’t even go up and talk to girls on their own!

Cool Kid Collective played an awesome show and that definitely added to the vibe of the evening. (End Field Report)

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That’s a helluva report because it teaches so much: How to come up with situational openers, you dhv just from having a cool vibe and interesting opens. Natural opens come from having fun things happen and continuing the vibe.

He is going into the game seeking women that he likes! Not just “10’s” or “Hot women” or “Hired guns” etc. Too many times a PUA seeks validation in the physical value of the women he seeks versus the vibe, the energy. The real important things. I always ask my students in a bootcamp what kind of woman they are looking for. “Long legs. Asian.” Strikes as seeking the wrong things based on just outward appearnace.  Compare that to, “She has to look nice, but I’m really looking for a girl with a fun, adventurous vibe. Positive energy. That suits me best.”  The writer of this FR has made that leap in a rapid amount of time. He now screens his women and that, in and of itself, makes him much more attractive than any DHV story or gambit can make him be.

Now do you guys notice the difference between this field report and the general stuff you read in other pua forums? This student talks to women, and chooses to continue to talk to them based on if he LIKES the woman from the inside! Wow! What a concept!  There are so many lost PUAs that are looking for physical 10’s, but not really looking for a certain positive vibe and friendliness. You see these puas with facebook pages with girl after girl after girl in the pics. The women all look the same but the picture doesn’t look like she is that into him. Many a PUA finds themselves using the same game over and over again to sleep with 100’s of the same woman over and over again.  Not only does that empty your sexual gas tank, that empties your soul.  You get bored. Unfulfilled

My students learn right away to value their opinion of what they like in a woman.  Jack the Ripper’s podcast just ripped into a pua named “sexter” who said “I only date 9’s and 10’s.” That student is caught up in a shallow circle and is only dating based on physical appearance. Many a time those students end up having huge egos and depend on other people to validate them.  The student who wrote this field report is self validating: In other words he has the confidence and self esteem to ensure he likes the woman too. He isn’t just going after 10’s on the outside. He is going for internal 10’s that HE HIMSELF has defined. He isn’t trying to prove himself by just going after 10’s. (Trust me this student has had them too.)

I myself like all types, especially the conservative ones that you can unlock into sexual maniacs.  With positive energy and high intelligence. Yum. That’s what I screen for. (They also can’t be like my psycho-ex-wife behavioralist.)

Also observe: He comes up with his openers on the spot and spontaneously with the situation at hand. That’s after one bootcamp. And in addition, he analyzes his game and focuses on the positives and the positive learning experiences. NO NEGATIVES. Is he AFC for going back to get the woman’s phone number? Hell no! He decided it was worth getting. If this parlays into a ride on an F15 for his favorite PUA instructor that’s excellent social circle game WINK WINK.

He followed up this FR with this email message to me:

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Regarding that post, I’m making an epiphany in my gaming – issues of ethics and personal fulfillment aside, genuinely screening and qualifying women actually improves your game. A girl senses that you’re choosing her based on her unique qualities and that makes you more attractive. I could go on and on about how this relates to your social circle and everything in life but I’ll save it for a journal entry.

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As you can see above, my socratic methods lead to teaching how to learn pick up too. After one bootcamp this student is down the right learning and philosophical path. He isn’t looking for the best gambits anymore. He is seeking his best self and getting very close in a short amount of time, and learning game theory from the inside out and making the discoveries on his own. Yes, what he wrote above has probably been written down before by another guru, but when you go out in field and discover it for yourself, process it, and enunciate it, you have learned that you too are your own guru.

One of my favorite posts

Well guys, I’ve been given exclusive access to Ross Jeffries’s newsletters, and he has personally given me the exclusive ok to publish some of his best here on my blog.  The following article is one of my most basic lessons to my students: how to get confident. But it comes from a different angle. Not “how to get it,” but more of “What kind should I be getting.”

Before I met Ross and learned his techniques, I was gunning for confidence, but did you know there are right and wrong types of confidence to learn under? In this article he explains why going for the right confidence garners faster success with women and social circles, and why going for the wrong confidence causes hang ups and errors such as approach anxiety.  I’m really glad he gave me permission to use publish his articles. (How many times has he done that for someone and not torn their heads off for stealing his stuff?? I must be special 🙂

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Three Kinds Of Seduction Confidence

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Many times, students come to me after a long period of being single; either they are coming out of a long relationship, a marriage that is ending, or they just have never gotten the hang of being at ease around women.

Many of these students make the mistake of expecting to be totally powerful, at ease and smooth right out of the gate and get disappointed when they can’t quite get there right away.

So let me point out that, actually, there are 3 kinds of confidence that can work for you.

First, there is “performance” confidence.

Performance confidence comes from already having done something well many times in the past.

You’ve successfully scored a 30 ft jump shot 1,000 times before, so you are pretty at ease on the court, knowing you can do it again.

The paradox comes when you are in an area of life where you have NOT done well before. How do you get performance confidence when you have little experience, or lots of experience and MOST of it “bad”?

Now, even newbies can get performance confidence. The key here is to start with very small pieces and work your way up gradually, a little bit at a time. That way, you are stretching your comfort zone and what your mind believes you can do, inside.  You are stretching just enough to learn and move ahead but not so much that you feel there is any danger in your mind.

Think about it like this: when I first started out teaching myself this stuff and experimenting, sometimes all I could do is the smallest little piece. But I kept right on building, gradually being able to do more and more.

The next kind of confidence is very useful to beginner and veteran student alike:
I call it “acceptance” confidence.

Now, acceptance confidence is NOT about puffing yourself up and charging in like a bull after a cow.

Acceptance confidence is about realizing the following attitude, “You know, I’m not sure how I will do or what will happen, but at the very least, I’ll be learning something and have some fun.”

You see, acceptance confidence is not about having a “will” of steel.

It’s about having “willingness” and giving yourself permission.

It’s about having good beliefs about learning and giving yourself permission to fuck up, learn and laugh through what to others might seem or feel like starting to fail.

One of the realizations I had came from a discussion I had with my good friend, Vince Kelvin.  I was pointing out some areas of my life that were producing some intense frustration and he said, “What if those areas weren’t really frustrating? What if they were just markers: book marks that are showing you chapters of power and ability that you didn’t even know were there, and now that they have your attention, you can open the book to the exact spots and get those chapters read?”

My friend, that kind of attitude is exactly what “acceptance” confidence is about.

Now, here  are two more things to consider about the power of acceptance confidence:

1.  You can have acceptance confidence at ANY time. It’s not about skill, but about attitude. You can have it right now, this very second, this very moment, reading this. It’s just about giving yourself permission to fuck up and learn and doing it with a bit of a laugh.

2. Women can NOT tell the difference between performance and acceptance confidence and will be as attracted to your acceptance confidence as to someone who has peformance confidence. The “vibe” feels very much the same to them and they are equally drawn!

I’m not kidding about this. Try it for yourself and see.

Projection Confidence

As you might know, I am a big advocate, believer and teacher of “positive” programming.  I believe it can truly work and be truly useful.

By rehearsing how you would like to feel, how you would speak and how you would feel inside trying out new behaviors, you can make these behaviors feel much more real and familiar to your mind and quite effectively increase your ability to try out and do well at new abilities, skills and responses in the field.

I personally recommend my Fear Into Charisma DVD as being the absolute best and easiest “projection confidence” product, but I have other as well. Check out the Fear To Charisma DVD right here at: http://www.speedseduction.biz/products/feartocharisma.php

One Warning About Profoundly Changing

Sometimes when you start truly changing in an important area of life, old habits and patterns and ways of thinking and acting may try to jump up and bite you in the ass.

That is NOT a sign you are “backsliding” or “failing”. It just means that these old ways are actually looking for a way to be released, recycled, refined and redirected to even more empower the vision and reality of who you are every day more and more becoming!

One last point before I close this issue: it also helps to hold a “compassionate” view of the women you desire. This just means that you remember, whether they are pleasing or frustrating you, yielding or resisting, they are still just human beings. They came in the same way you did: naked baby. They will go out the same way you will: no more breathing. And in between those shared events, they are just trying to figure it all out.  And they have their own moods, problems and insecurities to deal with along the way.

They may be hot.

They may be driving you crazy.

But they are NOT giants. They are just humans.

Peace and piece,

RJ

The Technoslaughter Philosophy

I am Technoslaughter. And I am me. I use the callname to keep my privacy, but I tell my real name to my students and ladies and we go by real names for the most part. All the women I date know the truth about me and what I do.  I continuously work on my best self and help others to do the same. I am a healer, a teacher, and a man. The game has given me wonderful things and I want to give back through teaching. However I’ve seen a bad trend out there. MISCALIBRATION. As Mr. Miyagi and Jackie Chan said in their respective Karate Kid movies, “There are no bad students. Only bad teacher.” I’m an advanced pua’s second opinion and a beginner’s fastest option.

I’ve taught many students, and they usually come to me from other styles and philosophies of pickup that have focused on one genre or one guru. Mystery. Neil Strauss. Ross Jeffries. David DeAngelo. David Shade. Direct. Indirect. Natural. Gambits. NLP. I’ve learned them all and synthesized them all into my own personal style. If you were like me, no single style fit me. Technoslaughter style fit me. So I had to pick and choose my material. But I really didn’t learn it until I had wingmen that were versed in the different styles to show me how they did it. I, like many of you aspiring mPUA’s, started with Mystery and Style. I had good success but I’m no rockstar and watched pua after pua become a bad miscalibrated version of Mystery. Dressing ridiculously, being loud and obnoxious and clowning. Mystery does it because it is congruent with who he is now and uses it well. For me? Some things worked but the rest wasn’t so much congruent with who I was.

Turning students into Mystery mini-me’s was not the original intent of Mystery’s method, but it was the unfortunate consequence when lots of guys go out there with no guidance or with poor guidance at the true intent of the method. Style even made fun of it in his book where all of a sudden he saw mini-Styles all around at the end of his book. I too have been copied to the degree where one student started friending all my lady friends on facebook and joining all the groups I joined, even though one of them was for fans of a good friend’s dog.

I was lucky enough to start with Mike Long and Venusian Art’s work, “Mind of Mystery.” It cost me 2000 dollars at the time but it showed me what Mystery really meant by what he wrote in his method and some of his newer discoveries. The key lesson I learned? Gambits themselves work when the body language, voice, and look are congruent with a guy using it. More importantly you don’t need a gambit when you have the other three aspects congruent with your confidence level. With my wingman Baron teaching me under his wing, I learned the Mystery method/Venusian arts inside and out. But something still didn’t feel right in me.

I then discovered Ross Jeffries’s work. His “Nail Your Inner Game” and “Unstoppable Confidence” recordings which he gave away for free at the time were my GOLD. I realized my congruence with my self was WAY off when I learned his concepts. I became Mystery and Style and every other Mystery-style guru out there as a cover of my true self. It was this costume I put on to game, rather than using it as an enhancement to my true self.

When I did Ross Jeffries’s stuff, All of a sudden I was ready to go out as ME. The funny backlash against Speed Seduction is that people think the patterns are rote and incongruent and manipulative. The funny thing is Ross’s ultimate goal is to get you feeling good about yourself, with acceptance confidence to allow you to walk with confidence in ANY endeavor, and without a different persona or costume in front of you. I felt empowered and ready to go out every night without any expectations nor any need to get anything from anyone. I finally felt what the Venusian Arts’ “Revelations” tried to get me to feel: Ghost and flame. But Ross’s NLP methods allowed me to feel congruent with what I was doing and conveying. It was me that was attractive, not my facade nor my gambits.

Next I met people who had learned from other people such as Tyler Durden, Mehow, Hypnotica, Steve P. When I was good enough at game to get consistent F closes, David Shade became much more important to garner my reputation at ladies’ conversations at coffeehouses as a great lay. No — change that to Astounding lay. No — Change that to Phenomenal one-of-a-kind lay.

Then I met Cliff Y. at a reunion event me and my wingman Dionysus held in NYC. He was a hypnotherapist learning game together with us. I venture to say Cliff learned how to use his hypnosis in game through the reunion, and me and my wingmen learned basic hypnosis from Cliff. And then I had another tool for myself in field as well as with my students to amp up their game. Now all bootcamps include hypnotherapy.

Now I am an mPUA who uses NLP, EFT, Hypnotherapy, Mystery Method, and other unknown but excellent PUA techniques invented and used by my wingmen in their sarging. I am a hybrid of many different styles and experiences, but have done the hard work in field to get it part of me. Add to that my work in healthcare, and life coaching and healing work are also part of my abilities, and you have a synthesized instructor. At this moment I am my best self, and the best self is constantly improving and learning new things. And that’s the learning philosophy I impart to my students.

My students are brought in. I get rid of their approach anxiety in a 1 hour session using all the techniques I’ve learned. It no longer takes 1000 sets. That’s the old paradigm. We get rid of it so they can fly and learn the real important lessons after that.

I impart ethics in pick up. Love the women you choose. Avoid, and learn ways to eliminate, the negative people out of your life including women and lovers. Leave them better than you found them if you have to leave them at all. Many a PUA has had karma kick them in the ass from using the game for the wrong reasons. I come in to right the ship. I’m the cleaner, cleaning up the BS that keeps you from true fulfillment from the game.

Numbers are not important. I do not value one pua over another just because they have more notches on their belt, because they show a video of them with 100 women, or because they have a facebook page full of victims of their techniques rather than true partners. My most successful students find their woman during or immediately after our bootcamp and move on to marriage or long term relationships when they find her value is worthy. That’s their choice. I have had mutually beneficial MLTR’s so I am not trying to force any specific lifestyle.

EVERY pick up philosophy and style out there has value. However I see no value in those programs or websites or gurus who teach other people’s lessons as their own to make a buck. I refuse to rehash other people’s stuff as my own just to make a buck. There’s no need to reinvent the wheel and to put “Technoslaughter” stamped on the sidewall. I will refer you to those products where I believe in the value of the product as original and valuable/worth your money. Right now I can tell you that the top products I have used myself to get me to this level of game is Mind of Mystery from Venusian Arts and Mike Long, all of Ross Jeffries’s products, Charming Rogue/ Nick Quick and Epik’s “Same Night Seduction” products, Stylelife’s silver bullet magazine and dvd monthly program, David Shade’s Masterful Lover products, Neil Strauss’s “The Game” and “Rules of the game”, and direct training from Venusian Arts, Kosmo, Joe D, and Ross Jeffries. But most importantly, I learned most aspects of the game from my wingmen and students across the world through our reunions, Facebook, emails, and Project Hollywood Online yahoo Group Through Area 51 lifestyle. I learn from my students just as much as I teach them. I have the advantage of pulling things from them every time we sarge.

If you want a reunion-type experience, the conferences that bring many styles together are the closest that reproduce this method of learning. Vince Kelvin and Johnny Wolf’s Pua World Summit in LA in September, Speer’s Global PUA summit in NYC and the 21 convention have been the best replicators of the process. However I’ll let you know on this site when the next bootcamps and reunions between me and my wings will be so that you can be part of our world entourage. The fastest way to get rockstar game is to befriend other excellent social artists who already have their world entourages. Most of the best North Carolina PUAs in the triangle/Raleigh-Durham area get their instruction from me.

Just so you know my style, I am a socratic educator. I never give a straight answer. I want you to come up with the answers yourself so that I no longer have to teach you because you have learned how to learn the game and life direction correctly: on your own with good critical filters. It’s the best way to becoming a well-rounded, calibrated, congruent social artist… with your own style and knowledge.

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