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Many times a paid instructor will put citations to magazines and articles stating “As seen in” GQ, Playboy, Cosmo, New York Times, etc. on their webpage, but those links will not lead to the actual article. Here at masterpickupartists.com I will only give links to actual articles that contain me or a mention of me, or the web stories that do so.
In December 2009 I appeared in a story on pickup by Tanya de Grunwald, a beautiful writer who came from England to cover the PUA World Summit in Hollywood 9/2010. She was mostly there to do a story on the gurus. That was until she met me. If you want to see the actual stories, here are links to the jpegs of the story. They are large files to keep the clarity but I want you to be able to see the article.
As you can see in the article I am prominently featured in the article. Also you can see I was one of the few guys to get the doggy dinner bowl look from her in the photoshoot. A picture is worth a thousand words, and her deep rapport with me progressed to a hand massage that led to a minor orgasm sensation. Tanya wasn’t aware of what she was in for. Let me give you the story about how I got in on the story whereas the gurus were chasing her the entire time to get their time with her…
On the evening of the first day of the summit, Ross Jeffries had agreed to meet with me and Cliff, one of my pua colleagues for dinner and taught us in field for a few hours. It was amazing seeing the hot wannabe-actresses/waitresses succumbing to his speed-seduction charm. If you weren’t paying attention to his vibe and technique you would have missed it, it truly was under the radar. He had at least 5 of the waitresses vying for him at one time. But I digress. After Dinner and our infield lesson from Ross, Cliff and I returned to the PUA summit late in the middle of Mehow’s infield video presentation.
As we walked in I observed, sitting there in the back of the world PUA summit, was a blonde woman that I hadn’t seen before through the entire day.
She was dressed in a frou-frou flowery dress, with a sky-blue pen writing in a frou-frou blue notebook in sky blue ink. Seeing nobody interacting with her or even sitting near her as the lecture was going on I sat one chair apart from her to her right. She didn’t look like the typical scantily-clad, hired-model-looking woman that comes to these things so I observed. She is
dressed fashionably and is quirky cute. My type of gal. I was truly curious.
So I open with a slight kino tap to her shoulder and brush down “accidentally” and open over the shoulder.
Me: You don’t look like the typical type of girl that comes to these things. So I’m curious and not trying to pick you up. But what brings you to the World Pickup Summit. (Curiosity being used, but hiding the fact that I am doing a minor cold read.)
She holds up a manila folder. It has “Cosmo” stamped on the side.
HBblonde: I’m a journalist. So I don’t fit in you say.
(She’s smiling and talking in a lovely British accent. Sexy. I feel the strings in my heart tug.)
Mind you the lecture is going on. But we were in our own bubble just like two schoolkids in the back of the room passing notes when we should be listening.
I smile and laugh at how I was able to read the miscalibration of her being there.
Me: You write your stories in Frou-Frou blue ink? That’s really cute.
The banter continues.
Me: So you are doing a story on the PUA world summit? really? (As if it should
really be no big deal). This boring stuff? It’s basically a geek convention where we talk about the newest technology in picking up women. You’ll be bored off your ass.
HB: Yes well it really hasn’t hit big in England but it is getting there.
Me: Yeah this stuff saved my life. (Her interest is piqued as I give her just enough to think my story is worth listening to).
HB: What’s your story? How did you get into it?
Sensing the reporter in her coming out, I play the interviewee role.
Me: (I give her a short version of my grounding sequence. Divorce. Devastated. 2 kids. My relationship needs. Needed something to get social. She scribbles in her blue pad totally ignoring Mehow’s lecture now.)
HB: Wow. I need THAT for my story. Can I interview you tomorrow? Would you mind?
Me: I wouldn’t mind at all. It’s somewhat risky as this will expose me but it’s worth it.
Her: How do I contact you? You got a cell phone?
Me: Yeah I do but that’s so informal. Just come back here tomorrow I’ll be here. You search for me. (Setting her to chase)
Her: I’d usually do it now but I am so jet-lagged from flying from England.
Just then the lecture is over and Johnny Wolf is on stage and tells us to stand up to get in state. He
says some Bruce Lee aviator sunglasses song gets him in state before he goes out. It starts, and
the guy who raps the song comes out on stage and raps the song for real. I don’t
want Bruce Lee Aviators. That is in the douchebag bin in my house with my Elvis
Gold Sunglasses and Ed Fardy shirts.
The day ends and she packs up to leave and I look behind me. Raising my eyebrows at Cliff he shows he saw the interaction. In a room full of the world’s best, Techno is the one PUA who has opened the beautiful Cosmo reporter. As she leaves NOT ONE PUA talks to her. A room full of 200 of the world’s best and nobody talks to her except me, even when the lectures are done. Nobody showing her any attention and not knowing who she is.
The second day of the summit comes around and the situation is different. Apparently one of the guru teachers found out she was from Cosmo UK, and each guru and their teachers are chasing her around, almost like she is being hounded. I leave her be because she is being bothered since it’s obvious the gurus REALLY want to get in the magazine article she is writing so they can post it on their website walls. All except Hypnotica are doing this. In fact one of my colleagues was telling me, “Yeah, she’s going to interview me. This guru (His instructor) Said she’s going to get me an interview.” (She never did, or at least he didn’t show up in the article).
So after a tantric breathing and meditative exercise with a master, muscular instructor (a woman who likely had pelvic muscles that could rip your dick off during sex because she was a tantra master), and a dual-induction hypnosis session with Hypnotica and Vince Kelvin, the journalist chases me down. Imagine her being chased by all these guys trying to get in the story, and she sees me from across the room and goes “TECHNO! I’ve been looking ALL OVER for you! You ready for that interview you promised me?”
Now imagine the looks on all these PUA’s faces as she leaves them all behind to run ACROSS THE ROOM over to me to get away from them. They all had looks like, “WHO THE FUCK IS THIS GUY?” since I wasn’t on the PUA summit roster to speak. (You guys just met Technoslaughter and what he can do!)
HBreporter: Care to do the interview now?
Me: Sure let’s go here (Leading)
I walk her down the hallway and get to two secluded chairs so we can bounce appropriately. I sit down and lean back and spread my arms and legs out wide open in a natural alpha pose; she automatically leans in.
She interviews me about how I got into game and How I got good. Mind of Mystery DVD set plugged as my first and best investment. I give her my full grounding sequence about my divorce and being devastated and how pickup training saved
mine and a lot of other men’s lives.
My story has a lot of dhv’s as she asked where pickup took me.
I took her instead.
Me: Imagine you and a guy go to Hawaii, you both meet up there and you know why you are going: to have a romantic adventure. You set up such a romantic time that you end up making love on the top of a live volcano feeling the heat from the heat vents coming up as you have sex on top of an actual bubbling crater. You and him in the moment with all that power of mother earth embracing you two and bringing not just your bodies but your souls together. THAT WAS THE BEST THING social arts has brought me so far. And despite my being well-off financially, WE WENT DUTCH for most of it. I didn’t pay one thing for her! That’s great and never been the case for a guy like me! She paid for the hotel and the helicopter ride over the active volcano later in the day. It was such a pure organic lovemaking experience with a top woman. You can’t write that any better in a romance novel.
She got her breath. Then we transitioned.
Her: How old are you
Her: Wow. You certainly don’t look 39. I’m sure you get that a lot.
Me: I work hard to maintain my look but I’m not obsessed by it. I let gray hairs grow.
After 30 min we are done and she gets me to sign a photogs release.
Her: I want to find you later so we can have a photoshoot with the photographer. We have GOT to get you in the pics.
Me: OK. But has anyone else talked to you like I have so far, out of curiosity?
Her: Sadly, no. You know a girl could get a complex in a place like this. The PUA World Summit and only one guy, you, has approached me. Girls aren’t THAT complicated you know.
Me: You are here, at the PUA world summit, and only one guy has talked to you or even acknowledged you?
Her: Well aside from the instructors who are trying to get in on the story, only you.
Me: I apologize. Only one at a PUA summit. That’s just wrong. Don’t take anything personally. You just see how much help these guys need. And these are some of the best!
Later I go out to lunch to meet up with a high school buddy who I hadn’t seen in 20 years. We shot the shit and I find out his husband acted in the movie GI joe. It was nice catching up with him.
Anyhow we go back to the hotel and I sit down at the seminar. I feel a tug on my arm.
HBreporter: “Come on I’ve been looking all over for you. I’ve been worried I wasn’t going to see you again.”
I notice she has now changed into a sleek, short-skirted cocktail dress that now makes her look like a cosmo writer in purple shiny dress as if at a social party. She looks like Carrie from Sex and the City now.
Me: What’s with the diva wardrobe change?
HBreporter: Oh to fit in with the photoshoot. I know it’s ridiculous right? And my corporate card isn’t working and I’m having to pay for the hotel now. It’s just a bad day. Darn it I have to find him.
She goes off and comes back without the photog. She starts talking to the gurus she is interviewing and trying to coordinate them talking to her and their photos.
She comes back to me.
Me: Ok once again out of curiosity have any other PUAs here talked to you aside from interviews.
Her: You’re the only one.
Me: I truly apologize for these students of the game. That is just pathetic.
Her: Girls aren’t that complex you know.
Me: I know.
Her: Wait right here I’ll get the photographer for the photoshoot.
She returns without the photog.
Her Flustered: Don’t know where he is. Hard to get all these guys together.
Me: Has anyone shown you some of the techniques we have?
Her: No not at all.
Me: WHAT? You are here doing interviews and all and nobody has shown you what we can do?
Me: You want ME to?
Her: Yes please.
Me: Well you look stressed so give me your hand.
(Taking her through the yes ladder and compliance)
Move here. No there. Ok.
And I do this for her:
Ross Jeffries Hand Massage as taught to me by Joe D and RJ:
She is blushing. Feeling great. Eyes roll to the back of her head. A woman showed me a nuance of the massage just 2 weeks prior and she described the sensation from this technique will cause every woman to feel like you are pushing apart her legs when you use it. I teach guys how to do this at bootcamp.
In the midst of her feeling good, shit eating grin, throwing her head back, the photog comes in and starts taking photos. She naturally is feeling good and I’m posing faces of confidence for the camera as she squirms and writhes from the good sensations. Back and Forth fractionating between her and the photog. She’s loving it.
At that moment I look up. I’ve got an audience of 20 PUAs watching what I’m doing to her hand and how I’m making the reporter almost squeal. The IOIs are astounding and the energy penetrates the room. Photog says he got some good shots. I’m still massaging. But I break. Show’s over.
Me: You’ve got others to work with
Her: Oh yes.
Info is exchanged, and the rest is history: She portrays me in a great light and the other gurus could only wish to have the pictures she had with me. Look at her face in the pic with me! “Gobsmacked” is her description of her reaction to the “hottest, filthiest” hand massage she has ever had. I really look good in that article.
I later find out after my demo, she asked the other guru PUAs to demo their best techniques with women. (She obviously wanted more of what I gave her) and save for Hypnotica, you see in the sidebox of the article she is not getting what she expected haha. Read the article, look at the pics, and you’ll see it with your own eyes how I had her in a great gaze, and everyone else was just showing technique.
AFC Adam Lyons was nice enough to send the article to me and also told me she had a boyfriend. But she never mentioned him to me during our interaction. She mentions him in the article though.
THAT’s how you are featured in Cosmo. And that’s the type of exposure that SHOULD give you license to post that merit badge on your website 🙂
More RJ videos:
Energy Orb: the continuation of RJs interaction with his woman after hand massage.
Anchoring even more by showing her that she has an effect on him. VERY strong
anchoring and making her feel even more attracted because she sees her womanly
ways work too.
If you would like to learn these Ross Jeffries techniques in the way I did, and have total control over a woman’s feelings of ecstasy during brief interactions, click this link to go to his product site.
You would never put such a sad video out like this if you got training from me. How beta!
Click below for a 45 minute video on how to learn the game to Max benefit. FYI screentoaster fried the audio after the 28th minute, so I re-recorded that segment and it’s underneath the first video and picks up where the audio is left off. I will try to splice the two videos at some point.
This is an introductory lecture I do for those guys new to my style of teaching the game.
Please give me feedback and comments!
If you don’t learn how to screen for the women you are gaming with pua techniques, you may end up with the blowjob girl here.
So Carlos Xuma gave me an interview via email recently. I’ve used many of his products to help me become more alpha in mindset and frame. His teaching style is VERY MUCH like mine and there’s no reason for me to reinvent his products or the wheel. You might as well get them from the source. You can listen to him alone and reframe success. If you just want to see his website and his products CLICK here
Techno: First question, How did you get in PUA and how long have you been in the game.
Carlos Xuma:”I’ve been helping guys get more success with women for the last 7
years on the Internet.
“Before that, I went through a long and hard journey of trying to
figure out how and why my dating life had gone so very wrong. I was
reading books on relationships, and all the stuff you find in the
bookstores, but they were all written by people who really weren’t
getting very good results in their own lives. They talked about the
way things SHOULD be – logically. But, as we know, attraction is
anything but logical.
“My big focus now is helping guys overcome their own self-limiting
beliefs and master both the INNER game of attraction (confidence,
self-esteem, etc.), as well as the skills – the OUTER game of
“I also teach guys about MOTIVATION – which is the fuel for all the
things a you will accomplish in your life.
“This is what I call the “Triple-Threat”: Motivation, Inner Game,
Outer Game. With all three of these in place, you’re unstoppable.
Techno: Question 2: What do you think is the biggest mistake guys make when meeting women?
Carlos: “In my opinion, the biggest mistake is how most guys THINK when they
go out. You see, all of the questions I get from guys have two
parts – the inner and the outer, and one is a matter of *beliefs*,
and the other is a matter of knowing the correct WHAT to do – the
“First, when most guys go out, they are thinking about GETTING
women. This is the first big mistake. You’re focused on your own
needs and wants and not enough on GIVING to other people. If you go
out with this “I want to get a woman” mentality, women will pick it
up. Even guys can sense a selfish agenda.
“But you can have a healthy DESIRE for a woman that creates
something much more intense than just physical intimacy, and that
involves a change of attitude.
“Ask yourself a simple question: ‘If she knew what my motives were,
could I blame her for her reaction?’
“Guys don’t realize that women want sex even MORE than they do. They
enjoy it more than we do, why wouldn’t they? But they have a much
better ability to control that desire with protective instinct.
Techno: Question 3: What would you say is the best, but little known, place to meet women?
Carlos: “Honestly, speed dating. I used to do these events all the time, and
I’d come away with a girlfriend every time I did one. Plus, they
are excellent places to hone and refine your social skills. I’d try
out new conversation and new questions, and I’d really get a feel
for what works with a woman.
“You see, you have to work the numbers. 95% of the guys I talk to
are meeting LESS than 1 woman a week. Once you get past the
“approach anxiety” challenge – something that every guy has, and I
show you how to get past it – you see that it’s all about meeting
enough women that you can make an educated choice as to the one you
create a relationship with.
“The next best place for guys is online dating. Every guy knows
about this one, but not every guy is using it to his advantage – or
correctly. Most guys quit before they get the results they’re
looking for, and it’s simply a job of tweaking his approach. In my
opinion, you need to have more than 2 ways to meet women that
you’re using ALL the time.
Techno: Question 4: What is your process of training guys?
Carlos: “The first step is a complete reboot of their masculine operating
system. This is a clearing out of their old thoughts and mistaken
beliefs about women and social dynamics. Next up is a complete
reload of their operating system with Alpha Man OS. This is simply
re-educating a guy to what being a MAN in today’s world really is.
“Once you understand the changes in thinking that need to take
place, you then have to have a game plan for implementing them into
your life so that they become your natural way of acting and
thinking. Again, I’m teaching guys the big picture stuff here, not
the “how to get laid with the drunk bar chick at 2:00 AM” method.
“The next step after that is to unlock your motivation.
Techno: Question 5: What is one thing a guy could do RIGHT now to change his game?
Carlos: “First of all, get in touch with your real passions in life. There
is no single thing that I have found that has had such a drastic
effect as really getting in touch with what gets me fired up about
LIFE. And let me assure you guys out there that are thinking:
“Women are my passion!” NO. Women are not a true passion. They are
an outlet of your sexual drive, but not your TRUE passion.
“(And when women find a guy that’s just into women, or appears to
be, he trips their radar in all sorts of bad ways. She knows that
this guy is not a good bet for her evolutionary success.)
“When you find the things that get you excited about life – like
your hobbies and your goals and your relationships in general – you
will pay less attention to women for your fulfillment, which
ironically makes you more attractive to them.
“So, that being said, guys still want to be more successful with
women along the way, so we can do that, too. Here’s a way you can
use this right now:
“Right now, take out a piece of paper and make a list of all the
things that really get you fired up about life. Detail them in
terms of their sensory experience. If you like snowboarding (as I
do), then you might write something like: Snowboarding – the sense
of wind and biting air on my face, the relentless rush of speed
down the mountain, the moments of catching air and feeling your
heart stop in your chest, etc.
“The more sensory description you can put into it the better. Then,
memorize this and talk about it when you’re with a woman. I
guarantee you this will work better than almost any “script” or
fake routine you can find out there. Why? Because it’s genuine and
“Also, the most potent and immediate thing you can do with a woman
to generate attraction is to be FUN.
“If you’re too serious and too focused on what you’re trying to get,
you can’t be fun. And when you create the frame of giving her fun
and excitement, you will also be focused on the GIVING.
“Make FUN your focus, and you’ll start seeing a radical difference
in your results.
Techno: Question 6: What was your biggest, most striking learning moment in becoming a social artist?
Carlos: “I remember I was reading a book that talked about the fact that
relationships between people are not logical. As much as we want
things to be the way they SHOULD be – like everyone treating
everyone fairly, no prejudice, etc. – it isn’t this way. We don’t
relate in any logical ways. And if you fight this reality, you’ll
always be crying about life not being “fair” to you.
“Then I realized that it didn’t really matter what *I* wanted. I
could want a woman to like me and do everything I could to impress
her. If she wasn’t attracted to me, it wouldn’t change anything.
You can’t force someone to like you or desire you. Plain and simple.
“Unless I can see through a woman’s eyes and see what it is that
makes her interested and attracted, I could push forever and never
get her interested in me. So I switched my point of view.
“Ask yourself this question: What matters more to the woman you’re
interested in – what YOU want, or what SHE wants?
“Then it all came down to a matter of one more question – What can I
do to influence others that gets results? AND does it so that we
“The answer to that question is what I teach guys. Because that’s
the ethically correct way, and the way that gets me what I want at
the same time. Win-Win.
Techno: Question 7: What is the craziest thing to happen in your journey as a dating guru and instructor
Carlos: “Well, when I had finally started to get the hang of how to handle
social interactions with women where I was getting a lot of good
results, I remember I once had a weekend where I was meeting 6
different women in two days. I thought that was really cool –
complicated, but very cool. I finally had that sense of “arriving,”
you know? Where my hard work had finally gotten me to a turning
point in my life.
“Since then, I’ve had up and down times, but I’ve never felt like I
would ever be “alone” or wanting for female companionship. I always
feel like I’m within a few minutes of meeting a woman, whether
that’s on the street, or online, or whatever. I got past my
scarcity mindset, and now life truly feels abundant. And not just
“Now I spend my time helping other guys get to that same place in
“(I’ve been sworn to secrecy about some of the other crazy times,
like waking up in the back of a truck full of band equipment… but
that’s another story…)
Techno: Question 8: How does your instruction differ from all the other guys out there (And we know there’s a shit ton)
Carlos: “I teach a holistic approach to dating. I don’t JUST teach guys how
to be attractive to QUALITY women – and I teach them how to attract
friends, success, money, and a balanced peaceful lifestyle. I teach
guys the BIG picture of how success with women translates to the
rest of their lives – and how to do it with honor and integrity.
“Guys get massive results from what I teach because I’m not giving
you an imaginary magic pill or magic bullet. There is none, and I’m
sure there’s quite a few guys reading this that have bought some
program in the hopes that it would be.
“I give guys lasting and deeply fulfilling success in their dating –
and in the rest of their life, too.
Techno: Question 9: Natural vs gambits. What do you say.
Carlos: “I know there are a lot of guys out there that see this picture as
very black-and-white. There’s one camp that thinks that you should
NEVER use anything memorized or pre-rehearsed because that’s fake.
The other camp thinks that you must use canned material because you
can apply it in a predictable way.
“Here’s what I feel…
“You DO need pre-rehearsed material to get the hang of how social
“BUT only as long as you need them to start generating your own
“If you’re talking with most people with no problem, and your social
ability is okay in 90% in most situations, but when you get in
front of a woman that you’re attracted to you lose your cool, it’s
not a matter of what you’re saying. It’s what you’re THINKING. And
that’s part of my Alpha Man operating system that I show guys.
“You want to shift to natural conversation as quickly as you
possibly can. Anything you’ve rehearsed or memorized is only a tool
to get you past those occasional moments where you have a
brain-fart, or you blank out because you’re in a low-energy state.
“Your first focus should be relaxation and calming your mind, then
use something convenient to open the conversation. From there, your
focus is purely on the “vibe” in the interaction. The “vibe” is the
ability to be in-the-moment with a woman and get improvisational
with her. It’s not hard, and again, it’s a huge topic to discuss
here. I wrote a book on vibing that guys can get from me directly.
Techno: Question 10: What is your favorite opener?
Carlos: “I like to let the situation dictate what I say to a woman because
it allows for such a natural flow to the interaction. Being
authentic is the most important way to walk up and start a
conversation. However, there are some things that I will say if my
mind is blank, and that’s where having a few good “lines” memorized
can come in handy. (Let me emphasize here that this does not mean
you should rely on canned routines for your conversation. ONLY the
opening should be memorized.)
“One of my favorite openers is this: “Hi, I just had a second to
come over and let you know that I think you have a really great
energy about you. I really liked that about you and I thought you
should know. My name is Carlos…”
“It’s simple and direct, and it NEVER fails to get a positive
response from a woman – if it’s delivered with sincerity. Again, I
won’t say it if it isn’t true.
Techno: Question 11: What type of guy succeeds under your system?
Carlos: “Let’s put it this way – if you’re getting all the women you need in
your life right now, and your confidence is through the roof every
single day, you probably don’t need my programs. But if you feel
there’s an area of your life – and not just your dating life! –
that you want to take care of – to find more passion and purpose,
to live what I call the Alpha Lifestyle, then you owe it to
yourself to take a look at the information I share with guys every
week. And especially if you’ve tried other “seduction” programs and
found that you aren’t making the progress you think you should.
Techno: Question 12: Carlos you are a rockstar instructor whom I pattern. thanks for the info and interview!
What is your website in case my guys in the Raleigh Durham lair want to find your stuff and learn more or get your email instruction?
Carlos: “The best way for them to get acquainted with what I have to offer
is to get on my free newsletter here:
“I’ve got a ton of great information, including audio and video
training on everything from inner confidence to how to approach.
“Then, if it makes sense, they can take a look at my other programs
that can help them massively increase their skills with women.